The cord of three strands ceremony (often called “God’s Knot” or the Unity Braid ceremony) symbolizes the joining of one man, one woman, and God into a marriage relationship. If you have strong spiritual beliefs, you may want to add this short ceremony toward the end of the wedding.
Every time you think back on your wedding ceremony it will remind you of how God is intimately involved in your marriage. The Cord of Three Strands is a symbol of that sacred union created on your wedding day.
The Cord of Three Strands is a great addition to a traditional wedding ceremony. It adds a truly unique element to your ceremony that friends and family will remember. It can also serve as a substitute for the unity candle. This is useful for situations where candles may not be used, or may be difficult. The Cord of Three Strands works well as a substitute in outside weddings.
During the wedding ceremony, the bride and groom braid the Cord of Three Strands together. The groom holds a small metal ring with three attached strands. The bride then braids the strands together, symbolizing the union of God, husband and wife.
While braiding the Cord of Three Strands, you may wish to have someone read an explanation of the ceremony. You may also simply play music or have a song sung.
What is the significance of the colors of the cords?
Gold strand represents God: The divinity of God is represented in gold. This covenant relationship is initiated by Him, will be built under His authority, and is intended to glorify Him.
Purple strand represents the groom. As a new creation in Christ, the majesty of the groom is represented in purple. As the husband loves his wife and submits himself to the Lord, the Lord in turn will demonstrate His great love in the marriage relationship.
White strand represents the bride: Having been cleansed by salvation in Christ, the purity of the bride is represented in white. As the wife honors her husband and submits herself to the Lord, the Lord in turn will nurture and strengthen the marriage relationship.
Marriage takes three: you, your soon-to-be spouse, and God. It was God who taught us to love. By keeping Him at the center of your marriage, His love will continue to bind you together as one throughout your marriage.